Tuesday, August 25

Oh boy...

It's finally here! The first day of school! I have about a million and a half things to blog about to get caught up from this summer but I couldn't pass this up.


Kali is SO excited about school.
She's been ready for years!
Went straight to her locker, put away her things, gave me a hug, said "see you later"
and headed for her classroom.
I was fine.
Until I got to the car.
And it wasn't being sad that my baby is going to school.
It's was a crazy mix of excitement and fear.
Fear for the hard life lessons you learn at such a young age.
Kids can be cruel.
And to think of someone being mean to my daughter,
or leaving her out,
or making fun -
breaks my heart.
But that is real life.
You will get hurt.
At some point someone will say something that makes you sad.
You HAVE to know how to deal.
Or you'll be miserable.

AND, there are so many exciting things.
She's going to make great friends.
And learn to share, and think of others,
she's going to learn who she is,
and what she wants to be.
And most importantly, hopefully she's going to learn how to gracefully not get her way.
Because you don't always get to be first.
You don't always win.
She's learning to get up early.
She helps pack a healthy lunch and two healthy snacks.
She's learning the importance of being on time.
And the importance of listening and learning from someone other than me.
I've taught her these things -
Now she gets to practice.

Yep, that's what went through my mind while I was buckling my seat belt.
And then I pulled into our parking lot and saw a tenant that owes me paperwork and I snapped back into my routine. Kali will be fine. She's awesome and I'll see her this afternoon!

The boys on the other hand.
This will be a HUGE adjustment.
Kyle's been fussy all morning - she is a major source of his entertainment.
And Corey made it all the way until 9:18 before asking when we were picking Kali up from school.

To soften the blow of Kali going to full-day Kindergarten she told Corey not worry because he would be going to school too. I was going to be doing home-schooling with him. He was so excited I figured I better have a bit of a plan. Today we learned about police officers. We read a book he got from the public library yesterday and he colored a picture of a police car. He made a badge that I lamented and pinned to his shirt. He enjoyed that - but he'll only sit for so long. And he's asked a dozen times since 9:18 when we're getting Kali. It's now 10:02.

Oh boy...

3 comments:

The Fairbanks Clan said...

How exciting to have your first child start school! It's hard at first, but then you see how happy and excited they are and then it all goes away. It was great seeing you guys, hopefully it won't be too long before we see you again.

The Ragsdale Family said...

YAY!! She is so cute. It's sad until you know how much they really love it and how good it is for them.;)

I forgot about the lockers. For some reason that makes them seem so much older. Dillon doesn't have lockers! He just puts his backpack on the back of his chair! HA HA.

You'll have to keep us updated with how school is going.

*When are we picking up Kali.......

Melissa said...

What an exciting time! I have the same fears for Jesse when he goes to Kindergarten next year... we've got one more year of pre-school. I hope she is loving it and the boys are adjusting better now. :)